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BOTTOM-LINE
When there are lots of eyelids showing that indicates the person
would generally prefer that you cut to the chase and not bore
them with details they really
don't want to know. Getting the basic drift of an idea, they move into direct
action, setting their feelings aside to "Just get the job done." They
take a dim view of trailing after tangents and may attempt to hijack floundering
meetings to get to the point, get a vote if necessary, and if it's not necessary,
let's finish it, and get out!
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PROBING
When there are no eyelids visible with the eyes in a normal open
position, this indicates a person who will want to know why.
You could call them the original "why-babies" because
they can't be satisfied with a mere swipe across a subject. It has to make
sense to them and they will probe, dig, and cross examine people until it
does. And if your version of a fact, idea or story doesn't
jive with theirs, they
will try to convince you you're wrong. After all, they've thought it all
through, checked out the facts, compared notes and arrived
at the only logical conclusion.
Obviously you haven't or your conclusions would agree with theirs. Right?
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LENIENT
When the eyes are spaced widely apart (more than an eye's width
between them) the person tends to be more relaxed, big picture
in their approach and will
put up with uncomfortable or problematic situations for some time without
saying anything or moving to correct them. They procrastinate
about it. They do have
a long rope and but when they reach the end of it, that's it. You could call
it a "long fuse, big bang syndrome."
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DILIGENT
Close-set eyes indicate a person with a hair-trigger reaction to things. They
move to make things happen immediately, are very conscientious, can be rule-bound
(their own, of course), and very prompt. Their job is to keep the rest of the
world on time, accurate, and doing what's right. When they are finished with
an encounter, they want you out of their space so they can move on to the next
item on their agenda. And when they finally do relax (after everything is finished),
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